Most of us lead busy, fast-paced lives. We have too much to do and too little time, and may be dealing with career pressures, family difficulties, or financial problems on top of everything else. Doctors have known for some time that there is a direct link between stress and a variety of health problems including headaches, stomach problems, heart problems, skin conditions, and high blood pressure, as well as depression and anxiety. While we can't eliminate all stress from our lives, we can take steps to reduce its effects, and meditation is a wonderful way for you to calm down and regain your balance.

Meditation has been used for centuries as a way for people to reflect, relax and connect with their inner selves, but it is not some mysterious ancient art that requires years of study. At some time in your life, you have probably experienced a meditative state, a feeling of peace and serenity, simply by walking through the woods, or enjoying a beautiful piece of music. With just a little practice, you can achieve that peaceful state whenever you wish, and feel refreshed and ready to take on life's challenges.

Try to Meditate Daily
Pick a time that works for you. If you have children, wait until they are in school or napping. Many people meditate in the morning as a relaxing way to start the day, while others like to meditate before bed. The time of day is not important, nor is the amount of time you spend meditating. Twenty to thirty minutes is good, but even if you can only spare 5 or 10 minutes you will still benefit from it.

Meditation Basics
Choose a quiet place with few distractions. If you like, you can light incense or a scented candle, but it isn't necessary. Some people find it helpful to listen to relaxing music or nature sounds while meditating; others prefer complete silence. You can sit cross-legged on the floor, or sit in a chair with your back supported. The important thing is that you are comfortable. Place one hand on each thigh, or cup your right hand under your left in your lap. You do not have to stay still to meditate! It's ok to move or scratch an itch! Don't feel that you have to shut out the world completely to get the benefits of meditation. If the phone rings, or there is some other brief interruption, just take care of it, then go back to meditating.


Breathing
Keep your spine straight, but not stiff, as this allows you to breathe deeply. Breathing deeply helps you to relax and concentrate because more oxygen is getting into the bloodstream. And deep breathing actually slows your heart rate. When you have found a comfortable position, begin focusing on breathing deeply. Follow each breath as it enters your nose, goes down into your lungs, and then out your nose again. Feel it on your upper lip as you exhale. Breathe in to the count of 4, and exhale to the count of 4. Feel the muscles in your body beginning to relax.

Don't be concerned if you find it difficult to relax in the beginning. Trying too hard to relax can be stressful in itself! You may find yourself thinking about work, or all the things you need to take care of that day. If so, just acknowledge the thoughts that come into your head, but then let them go and focus again on your breathing. You may also want to start with shorter periods of meditation and work up to longer sessions.

Visualize
Visualization is a great tool to help you relax. Imagine yourself in a place that you find peaceful, for example, the beach. Think about the sounds you would hear there: the cries of the seagulls, and the sound of the waves on the shore. Imagine how the sun feels on your skin, and the smell of the salt air. You might choose to visualize being in the woods, or in the mountains. Whatever you choose, imagine every detail as if you are actually there.

Meditation is only one of the ways to reduce the stress in our lives. Eating healthy foods and getting enough sleep and exercise are also very important. Take a look at your lifestyle and decide whether you need to make other changes, but try meditation, too. It is a great way to relax and reduce the negative effects of stress, and you will feel the difference immediately.

By: Louann Vertrees
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Hans Selye (1907-1982) was the Hungarian endocrinologist who coined the phrase "stress" in 1936. His original definitions of stress were physical as a result of his work studying rats to find a new hormone. He noticed that when they were deprived of food, worked hard and had drugs injected into them, the rats had non specific symptoms of an enlarged spleen and a coated tongue. It would be ten years before he realized that these conditions applied to humans' as well.

Today stress is likely to be described as mental rather than physical as our lives have become more complex nut nonetheless the body react to stress in three distinct biological phases.

The Alarm reaction to stress.

The first reaction is the body realizes that something is wrong and it has to make a decision, usually known as the flight or flight response. This reaction would go back to the very earliest of men, when faced with danger they had two choices either face it and fight or run away. This creates an adrenalin rush so that you can deal with the pressure.

Resistance to Physical Stress.

Unfortunately the human body is not capable or maintaining that level of stress for long and it resists the changes that the body is going through such as the rush of adrenalin.

Exhaustion

If the body is exposed to too high a level of stress for sufficient time it changes by aging in real terms it begins to burn out.

Good stress if it does not go on for to long can energize us and motivate us to succeed. It increases the awareness of your physical surroundings as the body takes stock of the immediate challenges. Hans Selye definition of stress was

"Stress is the human response to changes that occur as a part of daily living.".

Eventually Selye joined up the dots in his research and applied the principals to humans and he found that although we all react to different things which stress us we all an identical physical reaction. It ages us and ultimately he proved a direct relationship between excessive levels of stress and cancer and coronary heart disease. Unfortunately the physical results of too much stress do not manifest themselves immediately even though the extra hormones pumped out leave you feeling physically drained.

Stress management is self explanatory. It is the effects of reducing the physical effects of the body of bad stress. There are various techniques to manage stress such as exercise and relaxation. However they both come down to the same thing getting the levels of mental and physical stress we face more or less equal. Relaxation means total relaxation, for instance watching the television is not relaxing, though we use it as such, the brain is still energized and engaged. Sleep is important as it allows the body to recuperate. Deep breathing and meditation can also relax the body and reduce stress.

That explains stress but how does that affect the immune system specifically. Stress has the same affect on the immune system as it does on the rest of the body. The act of a massive input of adrenalin allows the immune system to take action it effectively prepares our immune system to deal with infections or problems, arising from burns, cuts, and other injures. It prepares the body to heal itself.

However the immune system cannot cope with elevated levels of stress anymore than the body can, in all cases long term stress has a negative affect on the immune system as across the board it does not work as well. Specifically if you are elderly or your immune system is already under threat then the stress can cause the immune system to almost stop functioning entirely.

By: Rita Goldman
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Mommy Stress isn't a term you will hear until you become a stressed out Mommy yourself. It can almost feel like an impossible task to prepare meals, be the perfect Mother and partner, keep a clean house and meet all the social commitments on a daily basis. Contributing to the Mommy Stress is the feeling of lack of achievement. It doesn't matter how well you changed diapers, kept up with the washing or entertained the little ones, there is the same amount of work to do the very next day, and still the same amount of Mommy Stress.

To combat Mommy stress there are some simply strategies that we need to put into place. The first one is to be kind to yourself. Many Mommy Stress sufferers are guilty of putting themselves last on the list of things to do and still feel guilty at the end of each day for not being perfect. The easiest way to turn this around is to be kind to yourself. Be kind with your internal dialog; congratulate yourself on your achievements no matter how big or small. Be the first one to praise yourself for the wonderful job you are doing keeping the family functioning. Most importantly make time for yourself. A Mommy who allows herself time each day to pamper, even if it is only for the smallest amount of time, is going to be a much less stressed Mommy.

Another great strategy is to make sure you leave the house at least once a day. A walk in the park with the stroller or even just around the block can do wonders for putting things into perspective and reducing your Mommy Stress. Remember the things you used to enjoy before you became a victim of Mommy Stress and schedule at least one of those activities into your week, every week. Breathe. This may sound a little silly at first but without your health how are you going to keep the family running? It is a known fact that when we are stressed we take shallower breaths and this can contribute to the Mommy Stress. So relax and try to take slower deeper breaths, especially when things are becoming overwhelming.

With this age of digital technology and fast communication, don't forget to pick up the phone and connect with your friends. By all means keep up to date with instant messages and e-mails but a good friendly conversation with one fellow Mommy Stress sufferers, your friends will help to unburden you as you laugh off the week's worth of diaper disaster stories and meal flops. And just remember, if you are going to laugh about it later, why not laugh now.

By: Lisa Baade
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Stress bans us from living an enjoyable life. It creeps up on our mind through our own deeds which are continuously becoming more and more stressful and just somehow affects us from acting wisely in difficult situations. You can and you should find ways to let off some steam from your mind in a constructive way. One of these constructive methods is to laugh it out. In this article I have shared some of the ideas that can help you in relieving stress by humor. Today it is a known fact that humor is a stress reliever that does miracles and helps you to improve your overall physical and mental health.

These humorous steps, if you follow can provide you with a peaceful and calm mind. These are just a guide that you should follow with utmost sincerity.

First, try to change your attitude to a humorous one, i.e. speaking of small and healthy jokes among your friends while at work or at home is found to be very productive. This not only relieves you but also takes off your mind from your tensions for small moments.

One of the other methods that you can try is, try to find happiness in even small parts of your daily life. Now this may look easy and like wasting your time on small things, but when you follow this and find happiness in even small things, half of your time will be spent on finding these moments and the rest on laughing on them so that stress won't have any time to enter your mind.

The next step is now a days getting popular which is, to laugh every morning you get up, may it be for no reason. Just laugh your heart out as loudly as you can. No need for me to tell how easily it brings humor to your life but to just site an example I am sure reading the above lines and assuming yourself in that situation must have given you a smile.

What you can also do is follow this: "A man is known by the company he keeps". What I mean to say is you should spend more of your time with people who like to bring humor in their talks so that your character will also be shaped accordingly.

Now all the above are some of the important points that you can do to relieve yourself of stress but the most important thing is to laugh.

By Luka Malgaj
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